It is very important to see what we have to see, feel what we have to feel, and experience what we have to experience while we grow up. If a process of childhood development is skipped in an abnormal way in becoming an adult, you may be seen to be lacking intellectual, physical or emotional qualities or abilities compared with others who grew up more normally. The more you find any deficiencies the less self-confidence and the lower expectation of living a successful life you might have. However, when you find deficient aspects within you, you should not lose heart but do your best to overcome with firm resolution, and pray to God so that you can meet whatever may be needed and fulfill what is lacking by receiving the grace and power of God and with the help of the Holy Spirit. ¡°I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.¡± (Philippians 4:13)