Parents sometimes want me to give them advice concerning their children. There are two groups of parents: one group of parents say, ¡°My child got into such-and-such trouble. What does he have to do? Please help my child be renewed,¡± and the other group say, ¡°My child got into such-and-such trouble. What should I do for him?¡± The latter group of parents thinks from their child¡¯s position and wants to help them. Most problems concerning children are resolved when they feel someone understands them. That is, when their parents change in their way of thinking and attitude for their children, the children can be changed as well.